Coming right up! I drew Cardinal. This is the bird of traditional fatherhood; the provider, especially of food, reliable and confident, and a fierce defender of his territory. He also teaches us to eat a good diet, one beneficial to the environment as well as to ourselves and may also be seen as the bird of the chef.
I think the Cardinal is advising you to "put on a brave face" for her as much as possible, and, obviously, there's a huge focus on food with this card. I would suggest going out and getting cooking supplies and then encouraging your grandmother to cook with you. This may be something that becomes a distraction for her or gives her a purpose. Alternatively, it may be simply that she needs you to support her taking care of her own eating and health.
As a final note, if both of you feel negatively about something, don't do it.
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Date: 2013-03-19 10:11 pm (UTC)I think the Cardinal is advising you to "put on a brave face" for her as much as possible, and, obviously, there's a huge focus on food with this card. I would suggest going out and getting cooking supplies and then encouraging your grandmother to cook with you. This may be something that becomes a distraction for her or gives her a purpose. Alternatively, it may be simply that she needs you to support her taking care of her own eating and health.
As a final note, if both of you feel negatively about something, don't do it.